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Be Better, Not Bitter.
After Seeing Some Inspiring Tweets & Frustrations Via Twitter I Decided To Write A Blog About How I Was Feeling:
Humans! We Need To Do BETTER!
Be BETTER, Not Bitter!
Speaking From Experience When I Say…
Our Problem In Relationships With Each other Is…*wait for it* We Always Want To Point Fingers.
You Meet A Guy/Girl, You Start Talking, You Both Wanna Smash Each other, Where Does It Go From Here?
Open Those Lines Of Communication!!!
It’s Key!
If They Say They Don’t Wanna Be In A Relationship, They Don’t! (Ding Ding Ding)
Don’t Force It!
Don’t Create A Fairy Tale Out Of A Mutual Sexual Attraction Or Friendship.
Some Things Are Really NOT Meant To Be And Never Were.
If You Both Feelin Each other Then 3 Weeks Down The Line You Realize You Can’t Stand A Lot Of Shit About Them? She’s really Bow legged and loud? He’s really into himself for no reason? It’s cool.
Sex Is Wack?
Ladies, You Dont Wanna Have Another Body On Your List With No Relationship & Look Like A Hoe?
Well Experience Is Everything, Even Joe Budden Said So! Next Time Just Wait To Give Up Them Vicky’s Till You Know It’s Going Somewhere.
Trust Me, I Been There Yo.
It’s Ok! Just Bounce. Dont Force It.
There’s too many fish in the sea, for real!
I Know It’s Hard, We ALL Been there.
Thirst For Someone & They Just Don’t Return It….It’s Embarrassing.
Just Suck It Up, Take The L, And Wait For The Right One To Enter Your DM At A Later Date.
No Need For Trending Topic Slander, Stalking They New Boo So You Could Say Shit Like “She Not Even Cute”, Or “He’s Lame & Probably Dont Get No Bitches”.
Don’t Harbor Those Negative Emotions!
It Won’t Help You Sleep At Night, Believe Me!
He Probably IS Shit & She’s Probably NOT A Hoe.
Just Not YOURS To Have.
(This IS Not To Be Confused With Rocky Relationships, Sometimes Shit Is Worth Fighting For Because It’s What You BOTH Want, Therefore You Stick It Out)
Anywhoooooo, Back To What I Was Saying,
Just Bid Them Adieu And Wish Them Good Luck.
Life Really Does Move On.
& There Really Is Someone For Everyone
Don’t Spend Your Precious (Who Got A Man I Heard Y’all!) Time On The Wrong One.
@LolaBJones
God Bless.
#WHOTL
